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Interview: Vanessa Fabbre
Interview: Vanessa Fabbre

Vanessa Fabbre is an Assistant Professor of Social Work at Washington University in St. Louis. We recently had a chance to talk to her about her photography and interview project, To Survive on This Shore, which discusses growing older and coming out as trans later in life.

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Gender, Personal Stories, InterviewstheparensprojectJune 10, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, nonbinary, trans*, transgender
My Kid Had A Secret Relationship
My Kid Had A Secret Relationship

Coming out can be a long process, and sometimes people need to figure things out on their own before coming out to their parents. Sarah Simon gives advice to a parent whose daughter dated a woman for a year before coming out to her.

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Dear MKIG, PartnerstheparensprojectMay 28, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
How Can I Best Support My Adopted, Latino, Gay Son?
How Can I Best Support My Adopted, Latino, Gay Son?

Laurin Mayeno gives advice to a father on how to best support his gay, latino, adopted son, despite not being able to completely identify with his son's struggle.

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School + Work, Young Children, Bullying, Dear MKIG, Lists, Coming OuttheparensprojectMay 21, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Bullying, Intersectionality, Privilege
Friends, Support, and Choice
Friends, Support, and Choice

A common question parents have after their child comes out is if their friends had anything to do with it. Lana Halperin breaks this question down and talks about what you're really saying when you ask this question.

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Young Children, Coming Out, Dear MKIG, PeerstheparensprojectMay 18, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
Thinking Outside of the Box
Thinking Outside of the Box

When her daughter, Abbey, was outed, Carmella tried to explain it all away and put her daughter in a neatly defined box. Read about how Carmella then challenged those tendencies to accept her daughter as she is at any given moment.

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Personal Stories, Coming Out StoriestheparensprojectMay 14, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
Sexual Orientation and Hobbies
Sexual Orientation and Hobbies

Is there a relationship between someone's sexual orientation and their hobbies and interests? Renee Zalles talks stereotypes, choice, and finding a like-minded community.

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Dear MKIGtheparensprojectMay 11, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice
How Do I Tell My Grandkids that Their Aunt Is Gay?
How Do I Tell My Grandkids that Their Aunt Is Gay?

Emma Tattenbaum-Fine gives advice on explaining to young children that their aunt is getting married to another woman. Long story short: Love doesn't need a grand explanation.

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Young Children, Coming Out, Dear MKIG, Talking to Young Kids, Telling OtherstheparensprojectMay 7, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
La feminidad de su hijo
La feminidad de su hijo

“Mi hijo de 15 años solamente tiene amigas y no amigos. Me preocupo de que va a experimentar la estigmatización en el futuro. ¿Cómo me encargo de su feminidad?”

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En EspañoltheparensprojectMay 5, 2015En Español
My Son Isn't Ready for Me to Go to PFLAG
My Son Isn't Ready for Me to Go to PFLAG

Going to PFLAG meetings can be a great way to find a supportive community, but what if your kid isn't ready for you to take that public step? Polly Kim gives advice on finding community while still respecting your child's privacy.

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Young Children, Coming Out, Dear MKIG, Telling OtherstheparensprojectMay 4, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice
Social Networking Apps and Your Kid's Safety
Social Networking Apps and Your Kid's Safety

For LBGTQ kids, the Internet can be a really beneficial way to find a supportive community. Mother-daughter duo Kirsten and Lucy talk about online queer spaces for kids-- and how to still be safe while using them.

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Young Children, Dear MKIG, MediatheparensprojectApril 30, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice
I Don't Like My Son’s Boyfriend
I Don't Like My Son’s Boyfriend

What do you do when you accept your gay kid, but don't think their new significant other is the right fit? Cornelia Prior gives advice to a parent who is facing this exact problem.

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Dear MKIG, PartnerstheparensprojectApril 27, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Dating
This Is a Show for Parents of Gay Kids Vlog: “Celebrating Pride With Kids Under 21"

Parents Project co-founders Kristin and Dannielle talk about how Pride Parades can be helpful to your kid-- and how to celebrate if they are not 21.

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Young ChildrentheparensprojectApril 25, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Pride
Coming Out Doesn’t End, But It Gets Easier
Coming Out Doesn’t End, But It Gets Easier

Coming out is a process, one that does not have a set end point for most LGBTQ people. Nicole shares how and why it took her years to fully come out to herself and to her family, along with explaining how much easier it is now as opposed to during her adolescence.

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Personal Stories, Coming Out StoriestheparensprojectApril 23, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
Does Aromanticism Mean She Will Be Alone Forever?
Does Aromanticism Mean She Will Be Alone Forever?

What is aromanticism, and what does it mean for that person's future? In today's post, Beck Paterson talks about romantic orientations, how they differ from sexual orientations, and how aromantic people will not necessarily be "alone forever."

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Dear MKIG, PartnerstheparensprojectApril 20, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Asexuality
¿Sus amigos nuevos causaron su identidad nueva?
¿Sus amigos nuevos causaron su identidad nueva?

“Mi hijo ha empezado a pasar tiempo con unos amigos diferentes, y ahora se identifica como bisexual. Me parece que sus amigos nuevos causaron este cambio de identidad y no es su identidad real. ¿Cómo le explico esta preocupación?"

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En EspañoltheparensprojectApril 17, 2015En Español
Handling Offensive Feedback About Your Kid
Handling Offensive Feedback About Your Kid

It can be hard not to worry about what others say or think about our children or the way we are choosing to raise them. Loni Jorgenson offers some advice for avoiding becoming overwhelmed by offensive remarks.

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Young Children, Dear MKIG, Talking to Young Kids, GendertheparensprojectApril 16, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, nonbinary
A ‘Lucky’ Dad’s Coming Out Story
A ‘Lucky’ Dad’s Coming Out Story

Richard James reflects on his daughter's coming out process, the bullying and rejection faced by many LGBTQ youth, and the ways in which his child's bravery has catalyzed his own.

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Personal Stories, Coming Out StoriestheparensprojectApril 14, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
Is There a Biological Age for Coming Out?
Is There a Biological Age for Coming Out?

LaShay Harvey Jones, M.Ed. talks about the fluidity of the stages of sexual identity development--coming out is just one part of the process.

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Young Children, Coming Out, Dear MKIGtheparensprojectApril 9, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Coming Out
Gay Son Struggling with Body Image
Gay Son Struggling with Body Image

Traditionally, women have been and continue to be the target of societal pressure to reshape their bodies into whatever is perceived as “ideal” in that given moment, but there are pressures out there for men, too, when it comes to their bodies.

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Dear MKIG, Mental HealththeparensprojectApril 2, 2015#my kid is gay, #mykidisgay, Advice, Body Image
Diez frases que no se debería decir después de que su hijo le declare su sexualidad
Diez frases que no se debería decir después de que su hijo le declare su sexualidad

Por Asha French

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En EspañoltheparensprojectApril 1, 2015En Español
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